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Q: Why are people so angry on here?
Is China really that bad, or are there mainly people who are naturally hateful on here? I honestly don't know why I am asking this question on here. Probably just get more people answering me stating how much China sucks.
So if I could just find one real person on here that can give me the good with the bad, instead of just spouting out hate from their pie-hole; that would be great. Or, maybe a website with good info.
Thank you
OK, now I can provide a better answer.
As per this thread
http://answers.echinacities.com/question/why-stay-china-if-you-complain-...
and Coin and several other posters answer this site looks to be used by some as therapeutical site for, probably, mentaly imbalanced people.
That explains a lot. They may not be bad people, they just have a problem and we should be more tollerant towards them.
Janosik:
It's OK Sinobear. In my homecountry they teach us not to get rough with those who are not fully aware of what they do or say.
Sinobear:
And you are yet another "new" user who uses passive-aggressive techniques to try and mask who and what you really are.
Janosik:
Oh man ... I can to certain extent understand why people come here and complain and complain. I do not see the same way but that's not important - everybody is entitled to own oppinion. I even understand that people like if the others share their point of view. Very natural. What I absolutelly fail to understand is absolute agrressive (active-aggressive!) intolerance toward any other oppinion. Not all contributers are like that but apprently some of those most active are. There look to be the people like Coin who hate absolutelly everything about China. There are some who hates just 'something'. So far so good. But the way how aggressivelly they blame everyone with different oppinion is allarming. Some of the replies really indicate that China could may be add psychotests into their obligatory health check ...
China, and Chinese, have lots of deficiencies, especially when compared with other countries/peoples.
Not all Chinese people are liars and cheats. I can't say that China is the absolute arsehole of the universe, having not covered all of it.
Most recent reason? Some stupid cunt called my kid 'little foreigner' last night. He was born here and has never been out of the country. Was it meant in any wicked or vindictive way? No, I do not believe it was. Did it make me feel like kicking that stupid cunt in her stupid cunt? Yes, I do believe it did.
Janosik:
Yes. I can understand your feelings very well.
That's what I meant when writing that for any foreigner (or half foreigner) there is currently no way how to integrate into Chinese society.
I always feel awkward when I see my Chinese friends to call a child which was born here to mixed couple, clearly having Mandarin or local dialect as first language a 'foreigner'.
But calling an American with Chinese origin, who cannot speak even basic Mandarin a Chinese!
Even though they do not mean anything bad - frequently praising the child.
Despite of the fact the child is half Chinese it's not seen as Chinese in majority of Chinese people eyes.
But I am afraid there is little what can be done on this part within foreseeable future.
mArtiAn:
It's just ignorance, but it's annoying. My point is that as I said earlier in this thread, these are the things that people get off their chest on sites such as this. I genuinely like the Chinese, most of them are great to my kids, they call them little brother or little friend, but every time I hear someone call them little outsider, I want to punch them in the throat. Also it's not about people seeing my kids as Chinese, I don't seek or wish for that, but calling someone who was born in the same place as you an outsider is fucking ignorant.
chamaflauge:
Hah...I can top it...while in New York City Flushing, Chinese were calling me foriegner...eventhough I am a new york city native, they couldnt speak a word of English, I am American and black.....so yeah I understand where you are coming from
