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Q: Would you do it?

OK...

Long time Chinese GF has medical procedure...can't have intercourse for 2 months.

1 month in she offers to call a friend of a friend (girl) over to help me (ahem).

She says we can take care of business in the spare room while she watches TV.

I said are you FREAKIN NUTS???  You think this is OK?  I said I am happy with us doing the other things for now.  

She says no problem..only one time because I can't right now and you need it....better someone I know..

She is very serious and even told a friend about the idea and after the friend said WTF... she then preceded to justify the idea to her.

I said no but as I am a man I am still contemplating the offer.

 

Coolest GF ever or massive trap and eventual quagmire? 

 

So...would you do it?

11 years 2 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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...what kind of medical procedure takes two months to recover from. I mean I assume she is a young woman 20-30 or something. Find her a better doctor, many Chinese doctors believe that people can recover through extreme passiveness, rather than moving, exercising to get healthy. 

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Thank you all for your thoughts.

For the record I wasn't going to do it and even told her I was offended that she asked.

That being said the next day i couldn't shake the thought from my head and even though I was tempted it was only temptation and nothing more. 

I was just curious what other people might do in the same situation.

Besides we went out drinking and dancing last night and against better judgment and doctors orders she jumped me when we got home and I couldn't say no...so all is right in the universe again.wink

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ahhh, Alcohol. The cause of and solution to all of lifes problems

 

11 years 1 week ago
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After recently acquiring a gf who loves to jump me, I sympathize with the complex flurry of emotions associated with such an encounter. Best of luck in satiating her undoubtedly multitudinous needs.

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after much thought.....  hmmmmmmmmmmmm.... I too decided it would not be a good idea.........

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WTF?!

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Yeah, good thing you did not tell her yes, I am sure it was of those test questions. If I was ever asked a question like this it would be a big red flag for me. Even if she was serious, it is Pandoras box.

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I can't believe this women would suggest such a thing and you are even contemplating going along with it. What an asshole. Franck3

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