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Q: Dating Chinese guy
I met a Chinese guy I liked and went on a few 'dates', but he is insisting i behave like a porn star (which i refuse to do). This makes him angry and he is behaving like a spoiled child, telling me I am selfish. Am going to break up with him. Ladies, any similar experiences? Guys (also Chinese guys) what do you think?
10 years 47 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Can you give some examples of what he wants you to do.
Chinese regard foreign women as whores. Remember this fact when evaluating your next Chinese beau
the chinese guy that i dated twice and broke up (i suggested it) is stalking me now... what do i do?????
I think most Chinese (men and women) are often undereducated about thee matters, I'd just sit down and explain to him that western women aren't all whores who sleep around at the drop of a hat and most instead need to be romanticized. If he understands and cares he will back down.
Dump him instantly,it seems he lacks respect for you,it does not matter where you come from, all of us human beings are taught one thing in common respect your parents,and your woman/man.so its seems like he's not taking you as his woman but a common -you know what- which is pretty disturbing.so my dear lady DUMP HIM.your worth more than that.
The definite source for Chinese guy / Western girls relationships 
http://www.speakingofchina.com/
Did you give him the 'ol "don't call me, I'll call you" routine?
If so, how did that go?
sorrel:
i immediately deleted him from phone etc after telling him where to get off. he tried to contact me for about a week or so, thankfully he gave up.
I was proposed to within one hour of meeting a man. He swear to Jesus that we were destined to be together. Since I am a realist, I told him to think about it some more. The point is; do not be pushed into doing what you don't want to do.
Next he might want you to meet some of his friends who have paid him a lot of money. Outside wanting you to behave like a porn star. Being angry and childish is not qualities I would want in my GF. Why would you want to see them in your BF?
It's been 25weeks since she asked this question. I think she dumped him already.
If you need lessons on how to behave like a porn star, just send me a PM.
That being said, make sure he's got some real tangible make-your-life-easy assets before getting involved with him. That from my own experience.
And then there's the nasty little issue of his mother.
Usually chinese man will talk about how rich they are and how great are etc. Chinese girls buys that shit but western girls will not buy this shit.Chinese guys learned in this sick place that can only use money as a charm. They are boring as hell also. I think 99.9 percent of western women can never be with chinese guys.
DrMonkey:
It's a bit more complex than that. Here's some reading for you on the topic ;)
http://www.speakingofchina.com/
http://sarajaaksola.com/
http://chinaelevatorstories.com/
Fuck him . Get a superior quality western man .
sorrel:
this old biscuit again?
thanks for the advice, but as you can see from the original posting date, this whole issue is dead and burried.
Most Chinese men are boring,they believe the charm of money too much.
But Vicky, the important thing is if they believe in the charm of big butts (and they can not lie, regardless of if the other brothers can or can't deny).
she is probably a fat bitch anyway
tomcatflyer:
Why so hateful, Sorrel is one of the nicest people on this site.
Mark14, does the 14 in your name stand for your mental age, IQ or is it how many inches yo momma prefers?
Mark14, does the 14 in your name stand for your mental age, IQ or is it how many inches yo momma prefers?
I hope you've already sent him away so far. I can't believe it he could ask you such things.
hey lord hanson.... i had your momma and she sucks a mean cock the dirty whore
