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Q: What happens if a foreigner gets a Chinese girl pregnant?

Let me be clear. This is not about me. Just curious. I've heard stories of a few foreigners getting unmarried Chinese girls pregnant and then trying to run out on them. The parents go to the police and get the foreigner's passport canceled or something. Is there any truth to that? 

12 years 26 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Honorable and noble are attributives that characterize a good man with a healthy conscience.  If you happen to impregnate a woman, regardless of nationality, creed or race, you have limited options:  1) abort; 2) marry the damsel in question and have the baby.

If you are a scoundrel, you will walk out on the girl leaving her to fend for herself.  Naughty shit there.

On the other hand, if you both agree, abortion is a viable option in China since it is legal, safe, inexpensive, uncomplicated and expeditious (unlike many other countries that muddle the issue with morality and religion).  And you will pay for it, accompany her to the clinic, ensure she is comfortable, and console her thereafter if she needs it.

If you want to have a child, you love the girl, and you are young enough to see your own flesh and blood reach full term (usually around 18 yrs of age), then marry the girl and start a family.  Nothing wrong with that.  People have been engaged in such arrangements for millennia.

If marriage is not your cup of tea, fine.  Just don't walk out on her.  Man up and do the right thing.  Good luck.

 

RRoy:

Well said!

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You do the honorable thing, you marry her, get her a abortion or pay for the upkeep of the child. Where a condom. Franck3

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Honorable and noble are attributives that characterize a good man with a healthy conscience.  If you happen to impregnate a woman, regardless of nationality, creed or race, you have limited options:  1) abort; 2) marry the damsel in question and have the baby.

If you are a scoundrel, you will walk out on the girl leaving her to fend for herself.  Naughty shit there.

On the other hand, if you both agree, abortion is a viable option in China since it is legal, safe, inexpensive, uncomplicated and expeditious (unlike many other countries that muddle the issue with morality and religion).  And you will pay for it, accompany her to the clinic, ensure she is comfortable, and console her thereafter if she needs it.

If you want to have a child, you love the girl, and you are young enough to see your own flesh and blood reach full term (usually around 18 yrs of age), then marry the girl and start a family.  Nothing wrong with that.  People have been engaged in such arrangements for millennia.

If marriage is not your cup of tea, fine.  Just don't walk out on her.  Man up and do the right thing.  Good luck.

 

RRoy:

Well said!

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Hmm... I guess I didn't answer your question.  Another night, perhaps.  In short, only a cad would run into trouble with the law, particularly if the family of the "injured party" had the upper hand, guanxi, influence, blood thirst, etc.  Good luck.

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DON'T BE A FOOL, WRAP YOUR TOOL.

 

This is a country with an HIV/AIDs epidemic. Seriously just use a condom.

Amonk:

Only a bitter Chinese boy would downvote a post promoting contraceptives, and encourage the spread of HIV. I would laugh at the naivety if I weren't about to cry at the patheticism.

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They use the *blunt* tool.

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If you get a girl pregnant there is only one way out of it, Man up and take responsibility of your actions.

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HE BECOMES A DADDY!!!!!!!

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She will start to get a big tummy.

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how do you know??

10 years 25 weeks ago
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She gets a green card...

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depending which country :D

you dont get a green card for germany if you marry a german heueheueh

 

kinda sucks for me btw ._.

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In days of old when knights were bold, and frangers weren't invented, men put socks upon their cocks, and babies were prevented.

 

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If you run out on a girl like that you're just being a DICK no matter what country the girl is from. In China I would think it is even worse as the girl has the emotional turmoil and stress of going through a pregnancy alone depending on how understanding her parent are. Then there's the stigma for any future relationship for her being a single mother with a half-white baby.

 

My advice is either get married or get it aborted, and for future reference wear a condom unless you're willing to do the right thing.

 

Further to your question it is unlikely that you would get your visa cancelled or be stopped from leaving the country unless the girls family have some guanxi with the local government. Getting a girl pregnant isn't a crime you know, unless she's underage.

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oh snap man. look if you got a girl nocked up you better man up and raise the kid or else be some f.ed up dead beat dad

tomcatflyer:

How stupid are you, answering a question about getting a girl pregnant which is almost four years old.

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