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Q: Why do people complain about one place but just won’t leave?

Someone don‘t like his/her hometown, so they leave to study or work in other city.
Someone don't like his/her country, so they leave to other "better country".
I can understand this.
Why I meet so many people, complain all the time but just won't leave? Does complain make u feel better?

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I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and all our experiences will differ in the context of many variables, such as the effort we ourselves make to adapt and set aside our expectations and limited mind-sets . Notwithstanding the obvious negatives in society that exist all over the world, and some that are unique to particular places, I believe for your own sake you have to draw the distinction between making comments that are purely ignorant and insolent on the basis that the world doesn't perform to your version of utopia. There are people that would complain no matter where they are, and have difficulty making friends and adapting to any given society.Venting is healthy, but for your own sake and mental health, if you can't find a balanced equilibrium between the good and the bad,  and make the effort to seek out the positives, not only in your country of choice, but in life in general, then you will be the only one to suffer. It's no different to a relationship. If you can't find enough good things to say about a person and all you can do is complain, then it stands to reason that you should not be with that person. In other words move on. By constantly complaining and becoming victim to a situation you have placed yourself in, suggests weakness of character and a deep seeded insecurity that wouldn't allow you to be happy anywhere. That's not to say we can't vent and express our distaste for things that may irk us, I'm just saying that if all you do is complain, you are the only one that will bear the burden in the end. Happy times to you all. 

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