By continuing you agree to eChinacities's Privacy Policy .
Sign up with Google
Sign up with Facebook
Q: Do you think he's serious with me？
A Swiss guy approached me while I was walking around my house, we exchanged wechat. He lives like 5-10 minutes walking from my house, very close though. He talked with me for three days on wechat and tonight he asked me out. He told he wanted something serious so I came out with him.
Tonight he was trying to come to my room but I declined, then I took him to the bar. There he kept kissing me and touching me and I didn't really refuse. Then he said it's boring here and then he took me to the parking lot and he sucked my boobs there and put his fingers inside me. I lost control cause I was horny too but still I controlled myself and got rid of him and ran out. He came after me and said we are adults, it doesn't matter even if we had sex. I told him I have rules and that's went too far for me and I needed to calm down. Then I went upstairs to my room and he went to his house too.
Then he kept texting me saying he's sorry and he would give me time.
I am not sure if I should trust him for wanting something serious with me.
Uncle Phil, what do you think that motivated our narcissist Viki to post those stupid questions in the first place?
Do you know that narcissists will never realize they are narcissists,and they are overly sensitive to criticism and can't face their failure and they must argue back due to their childhood trauma which caused low-self esteem and they totally block that part of their memories because of pain? So they must argue over things that normal people don't to protect themselves?
I really can't be bothered to answer her questions again on ecc because she kept me updated every second of her life stupidity, I warned her every time. I told her what exactly was gonna happen and she argued and argued and everything happened exactly as the way i told her is gonna happen.
And what did she do? Post on ecc. But of course, she skipped some of the most important details, like what a smooth talker this guy is, how he hit on her, how he flattered her in a pick up artist way, how he touched her hair and leg upon meeting, how he tried to get info out of her so that he could say exactly what she wants to hear to get in her pants, how he was late for their important first date and how he tried to meet in her home.
And now she's 'confused' if she should keep on trust in him. Just like she was confused why every guy she met treated her like shit and why she could not keep a job and why all her previous colleagues hated her.
And really, why did anyone even bother to give her advice anymore knowing she won't listen?
Deep down, you enjoy seeing her life as a failure.
According to the research, trolls are made up of narcissists, sadists and psychopaths.
Maybe you, you are a psychopath, Uncle Phil, you are wolf in a sheep's skin.
And I save the best to the last, narcissists are perfect victims for psychopaths.
Let's wish Viki good luck, as she's always so 'unlucky' isn't she?
nicholasba:
That's quite funny coming from you. Can't deny that to read all this hypocritical crap, having for months chatted with you and knowing what you think of her, is disappointing.
Viki87:
Miko, stop the craps. I am not narcissist, I don't even think I am pretty to all men.
I never think I am the best in everything.
You have no idea who I am.
You read too much shits online and overanalysised.
You realize you are just going to get trolled hard? What are you thinking? Well seems like you listen to the shit advice these people give you. Unless you are a troll? Either that or you dont realize what the fuck going on.
Hotwater:
The thing is, she doesn't actually listen to our advice. Vicky has been using this answer board for relationship advice for a couple of years now. She's been given some good advice over the years (& been trolled a lot). She doesn't take on board the good advice she's been given.
This one is a keeper. He is an all class act.
No seriously, what woman wouldn't be flattered to be mauled in a filthy bar by a drunk sexpat then taken to the carpark for a blowjob between a puddle of piss and a pile of vomit?
However, by you doing a runner he's probably panicking that you are going to extort him for an EU ID card with the threat of a sexual assault charge.
Anyways, cool story.
Hotwater:
You're spot on their. Very class act. Think I was a teenager last time I fingered someone in a car park!
'something serious' mayb holdin' diff meanings fr u both. clarify wth him n the way ahead wl b clear.
Ask your friend Miko what to do.
....This should be good
nicholasba:
They are like completely opposite personality yet they seem to be attracted to each other and they have a lot in common . . .(e g, Princess syndrome )
Why should you trust someone who has finally shown interest in you? Sometimes you complain that you want to have sex and at other times you behave like a virgin when someone opelnly talks about the thing you would only share on a forum like this. Maybe parking lot sex isn't your dream, but then you can always simply tell him that. Also, I dont get that running away part. Was someone forcing you to let a stranger touch you? You can always refuse, but please dont behave in a childish way. Such behavior also puts a lot of stress on him, you didnt protest when the deed was being done, but then you started to act as if someone was trying to rape you. Is he serious with you? You have known him for three days, during which he has fingered you. He seriously wants to have sex, that for sure, about the rest god only knows...
RandomGuy:
She behaves like the other rotten spoiled Chinese girls of her age who think of themselves as entitled princesses to whom men should pay everything but not expect anything in exchange. I have met others like her, they have mood swings so sudden it makes that of the most delusional Western feminists soft by comparison. In China they are not feminists but 'princess-like' and think the world is owed to them on a platter, that they are exceptional because mom and dad told them so, such women end up lonely and bitter in the end. I have an ex who was 22 when we 'dated', I knew she wasn't a virgin at the time but I was so dumb and paid her stuff and never got to **** her for over 4 months so I just gave up and moved on at the time. Like did she think I was going to wait for marriage to do it when she wasn't even a virgin? LMBO double standards between her ex(es) and me, screw that. Now she is nearing 30 and found a way to get back to me recently through a common acquaintance begging me to go back with her, LOL what? I am now married to a much better, smarter and more beautiful woman, so in her dreams maybe. When I rejected her she lost it and told me all men are bad blah blah blah even though I was being serious and wanted to build something at the time and she was the one who screwed it up. Vicky is so typical of this profile it's laughable LOL
Viki87:
@uyengemololo, you are so right. I added so childish. We are adults, I shouldn't protest, either do the sex or don't. Simple You are being so helpful for giving a good opinion. Thanks 
Uncle Phil, what do you think that motivated our narcissist Viki to post those stupid questions in the first place?
Do you know that narcissists will never realize they are narcissists,and they are overly sensitive to criticism and can't face their failure and they must argue back due to their childhood trauma which caused low-self esteem and they totally block that part of their memories because of pain? So they must argue over things that normal people don't to protect themselves?
I really can't be bothered to answer her questions again on ecc because she kept me updated every second of her life stupidity, I warned her every time. I told her what exactly was gonna happen and she argued and argued and everything happened exactly as the way i told her is gonna happen.
And what did she do? Post on ecc. But of course, she skipped some of the most important details, like what a smooth talker this guy is, how he hit on her, how he flattered her in a pick up artist way, how he touched her hair and leg upon meeting, how he tried to get info out of her so that he could say exactly what she wants to hear to get in her pants, how he was late for their important first date and how he tried to meet in her home.
And now she's 'confused' if she should keep on trust in him. Just like she was confused why every guy she met treated her like shit and why she could not keep a job and why all her previous colleagues hated her.
And really, why did anyone even bother to give her advice anymore knowing she won't listen?
Deep down, you enjoy seeing her life as a failure.
According to the research, trolls are made up of narcissists, sadists and psychopaths.
Maybe you, you are a psychopath, Uncle Phil, you are wolf in a sheep's skin.
And I save the best to the last, narcissists are perfect victims for psychopaths.
Let's wish Viki good luck, as she's always so 'unlucky' isn't she?
nicholasba:
That's quite funny coming from you. Can't deny that to read all this hypocritical crap, having for months chatted with you and knowing what you think of her, is disappointing.
Viki87:
Miko, stop the craps. I am not narcissist, I don't even think I am pretty to all men.
I never think I am the best in everything.
You have no idea who I am.
You read too much shits online and overanalysised.
I'm going to try that someday. What the Swiss guy did! But I don't know who Vicki is
No he is not serious, he saw you as easy and that is how you behaved. How old are you, 30 or 13, because a 30 year old woman does not act the way you do. Please ignore this and ask for more advice at the next crises, and do not forget to ignore that advice too.
lol...signed up for one day
Had a look at a couple of posts - saw one by Viki with regards to her job...looked through some of her other posts - this one pretty much confirms it...
She's an obvious troll...probably not even Asian
No idea why you guys like feeding the troll with attention...lol
Hotwater:
I can guarantee she's not a troll. Used to chat with her on WeChat. Definitely a confused Chinese lady who lives in Shanghai.
philbravery:
As hotwater said...she is real and as he pointed out real confused. You get used to her after awhile. Just ffs don't encourage her
Ask uncle Phil.
No, he probably isn't serious. He is just another horny lao wai.
Start taking good advice... otherwise suffer the consequence.
Vicky the thing that you are looking for a white bf, and in chat you told me that your white prince has to hold an American passport makes me wondering whether your looking for a bf or a green card.
Being said I'm not judging you this time, as I'm not judging someone just looking for sex. But be honest at least with yourself or your life will be miserable.
Viki87:
Stop making things up.I never said my boyfriend has to hold an American passport. I didn't just date Americans. Just most I met are Americans.
