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Q: Does all the 'playa' pick-up routines work with Chinese girls?
Given a couple of threads on Chinese girls and all, I just thought I'd ask.
Is there that much of a cultural difference such that using the tactics of a 'playa' going to work here???
12 years 6 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Don't really know cause i never used any. Guess if I was using tactics, they'd work. I'm not here using women, well not in a bad way. But this week I have a Hunan girl that loves me. I talk to her sometimes. I'm funny. But after a day or so she told me she loves me. I always say i have GF here. She said we should go out for steaks and asked if I wanted to see her home in Hunan yesterday. She got mad when I say I have GF which I have on several occasions. I ask are we still friends and she said Sorry.
There is a department store under my apartment. I sometimes talk to a girl that works there. The other day , she told me she cried after I left the store last time. I tried to ask why and apologize because I don't think i hurt her feelings and I haven't been rude. This was not the cause.
It just seems being friendly goes a long way here. And no I didn't sleep with these girls.
There is no need to use 'playa' tactics here.
I just sit in a bar alone with a bucket full of beer and play with my iPhone.
They come over to me all night long.
Granted I am usually in a smaller factory town outside of the city so I am almost always the only loawai.
Being a rock star is tough sometimes.
TedDBayer:
Dam and I let my GF steal my iPhone,,is loss of bait a loss of face ?
