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Q: How to solve this?

After I come back to Shanghai from America, I felt a deep depression and become extremely lazy and didn't even reply customer's inquiries in the office. Which is bad, how can I adust it? I need to do work to make money but lost interest and engery in doing work in China.

 

Mainly because I felt too bored after come back, life in America is more inteteresting to me as most people look diffeent to me, guys look more attractive there^^  That is the main reason I become too depressed in Shanghai now. lol

 

And some other reason I feel not happy to be back because standards in New York is higher than in China, resturants are much more cleaner and organized.

 

In Shanghai, almost everyday, the chinese men will stare at me nonstop. In New York, most white men will not stare nonstop(I guess because they are more polite), most men call me beautiful and sexy there in the street are the blacks. Maybe the white guys are more educated there than the blacks. I do not try to be a racist but just saying a fact. I feel many chinese men are creepy. 

9 weeks 2 days ago in  General  - China

 
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Didn't you just recently post about how you like China better?

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Didn't you just recently post about how you like China better?

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*edit* Double post.

Make up your mind.

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Yeah, I think you are having a natural reaction.  Now you have a goal to pursue!  Find a job working abroad, USA or Western Europe maybe, surely the big multi-nationals have a need for a bilingual employee.  After all, PRC & USA are each other’s biggest trading partners.

 

Now you know how we feel about getting stared at!   I’m a pretty normal looking fellow, granted blonde hair and blue eyes maybe makes them stare more, and I’m usually in 2nd & 3rd tier cities where some, especially the old folks have very rarely ever seen a laowei.  But gosh Viki, take the stares you got in NY and multiply by 10, that’s about how much I get.  I pretty much ignore, but sometimes it raises my ire.

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I know I have criticized you in the past, but it seems as though you really have gained something from your trip. If so I hope you keep the lessons you have learned and use it to your success. Sometimes you need to step outside of your comfort zone to realize what is truly missing.

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Hey if yer ever interested, Id be glad to show you around the town ...Might be nice to meet someone from online...can’t guarantee anything, though

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And they banned my vpn, it made me very mad. Again? The CCP acted so insecure and scared for having the people to hear a diffrent voice from the outside world, that's pretty insane to me.

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I can't wait to get out of China again.

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After a few day's backing in China, now I feel I do not like China more than before I leave China.

 

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A news said a 16 years old Argentina girl got 9 children after dating 3 guys, the chinese girl in my office said foreigners have crazy life and she'll never marry a foreigner. What a fool. I really feel most mainlanders are stupid.

I feel like they are living in the kindergarden having no idea of having a good view of the whole thing.

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