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Q: I worry that my boss has seen my message on wechat.

This morning, I went to talk with my boss about resignation. But my boss didn't agree, so we came up with an agreement for me to earn more authority to be a manager. So I stayed.

 

Theh my boss wants me help to transfer 114rmb to his wechat as his wechat doesn't have bank account linked to shop online.

 

But while I was transferring money, my boss leaned towards to me and glanced my wechat a bit but I quickly move my iPad away.

 

You know you can see the last conversations with people  on wechat. I am afraid that my boss has seen my chatting history between my suppliers for my own business and the chatting message that another company sent to me(I told them I am interested in the job in their company while I was quitting).

 

So what am I gonna do now?

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so you demeaned and criticized a subordinate in front of everyone, you demanded an extra day holiday, you have done your own business and looked for a new job on the company time.

 

Your boss probably wants to get into your pants and that is the only reason you are still there. 

for sure if i had an employee like you, you would be escorted out by security and refused a reference.

 

I think your boss is only going to string you along until you realise you are probably not going to get paid at all and just leave.

Viki87:

He has not got enough employee and I am getting him business.

 

So the Chinese boss needs me. Let's call it demand and supply.

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As long as I am making him money and contribute the values which deserves my pay. I think he shouldn't care. 

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And that, Vicki, is exactly why you will never succeed; you simply have no idea of how to behave like a professional person. Just do what you do best, whining on here about how tough your life is and when you get good advice on how to improve ignore it all because you know best. How is that going for you?

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I doubt he seen and understood it enough with a quick glance. However, going forward I would have seperate WeChat accounts. Perhaps one for where you work now, one for the start-up you are trying to get going, one for personal matters.

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Nothing you can do. Wait. Whatever is going to happen will happen.

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True

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So, that would mean you've been chatting with the suppliers on company time? Ie, doing YOUR business when you should have been doing HIS??? (either that, or you don't have many friends that you chat with... enough that any conversations with the other suppliers don't move off the screen...)

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Your Chinese. ...look him square in the eyes and.....denie everything

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so you demeaned and criticized a subordinate in front of everyone, you demanded an extra day holiday, you have done your own business and looked for a new job on the company time.

 

Your boss probably wants to get into your pants and that is the only reason you are still there. 

for sure if i had an employee like you, you would be escorted out by security and refused a reference.

 

I think your boss is only going to string you along until you realise you are probably not going to get paid at all and just leave.

Viki87:

He has not got enough employee and I am getting him business.

 

So the Chinese boss needs me. Let's call it demand and supply.

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As long as I am making him money and contribute the values which deserves my pay. I think he shouldn't care. 

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And that, Vicki, is exactly why you will never succeed; you simply have no idea of how to behave like a professional person. Just do what you do best, whining on here about how tough your life is and when you get good advice on how to improve ignore it all because you know best. How is that going for you?

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Gold on dip ... Anybody else cares?

 

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You were going to quit and find a new job again? Have you forgotten how tough it was before? 

 

This isn't going to help your reputation if you continue to burn bridges constantly. You should be happy your boss wants to keep you and is willing to work with you. Most Chinese bosses don't care and just want you to do whatever they tell you. 

 

I would try to prove yourself to them before you start demanding extra holidays and looking for new places to work.  

Viki87:

Robk, you are so right. Yeah, I should not forget how tough it was before. I won't quit my current job so easily. No,my boss wants to keep me only because he hasn't got the one to replace me. Maybe he's planning on it. Most boss won't keep a new manager who can't get alone with his current employees. I will be very cautious from now on. He delayed the payday for almost a week,rumors say that he has financial problem these days. I am so worry that his company will go bankrupt. He lacks of the logic business management mind and it affected my sales job. But still I won't quit my job fast unless I can't get paid for many monthes. I don't think it's easy to work with my boss as he doesn't know management much. What I care most is just make money here and save to invest my pump business on alibaba and be self-employed soon. Not necessary to shift from one company to another company.

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And the customer who placed the order to me has not confirmed the order with me. That customer has been talking about buying products cts from me and he's busy setting up shop in South African these days and have not replied my emails for many many days. I am so worry that he won't place me order. I feel pressured here by not make the sales while the boss kept asking me constantly, he even asked me during lunch. You know the Chinese boss usually don't respect your private time much. I hate that.

 

 

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He's stubborn too. He sometimes just want me to do what he told, lol

 

He isn't that good as you think. His old sales is running his business by not save all the customers have contacted his company and the old sales is leaving the job soon. My boss told me to not manage her cause he told the old sales won't listen to s new manager. The boss is a fool.

 

He told me to not say anything upset the new sales girl simply because he worries that she'll quit and no one will do the job. That's silly. The new sales girl has stirred trouble to against my nanagement, as a manager, I would definitely replace her fast. 

 

I think my boss is ruinning his own business, that's why now he got financial problem and didn't have money to pay his employees now. His poor management has hurt his business badly already with all the old sales left him or going to leave in a month, he lost many customer information cause he has no idea of manage his own business well and those sales didn't even save all the customers to leave to him. Poor guy.

 

 

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