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Q: So bored. Where to find a foreign bf fast in Shanghai?

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You know the answer already. Just look back at the previous answers we have all given you over the years. I know you probably did not like what we said then, but any new answers are just going to be the same. You keep trying different guys, trying different jobs and it never works out, guess what the common denominator is. You have to learn that it is you who has to change or your life is not going to change. Take responsibility.

Trying to find one fast just means you will get the wrong one again.

Viki87:

What are you talking about? 

Many guys I dated want relationship.

Most of my ex found me on dating website.

Many of them found me not matchable and most of them were looking for gfs have the same interest. You can't call them players.

All I should is try to find a bf who feels comfortable with me. You can't just say that I found players when everytime a bf broke up with me. Like my last bf, he treated me very well. We can't be sure he's a player right? He could be a very good man who just lost interest in me and wanted to end relationship with me. That's what he told me in email. I miss him but I never blamed on him, in fact, we had good memories.I felt grateful for the way he treated me, Maybe because I am boring to many western guys, we never know.

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Viki must have created this website: excuses.com

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In a club

Viki87:

Usually for one night stands. Plus I don't like club much, too noisy. 

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You know the answer already. Just look back at the previous answers we have all given you over the years. I know you probably did not like what we said then, but any new answers are just going to be the same. You keep trying different guys, trying different jobs and it never works out, guess what the common denominator is. You have to learn that it is you who has to change or your life is not going to change. Take responsibility.

Trying to find one fast just means you will get the wrong one again.

Viki87:

What are you talking about? 

Many guys I dated want relationship.

Most of my ex found me on dating website.

Many of them found me not matchable and most of them were looking for gfs have the same interest. You can't call them players.

All I should is try to find a bf who feels comfortable with me. You can't just say that I found players when everytime a bf broke up with me. Like my last bf, he treated me very well. We can't be sure he's a player right? He could be a very good man who just lost interest in me and wanted to end relationship with me. That's what he told me in email. I miss him but I never blamed on him, in fact, we had good memories.I felt grateful for the way he treated me, Maybe because I am boring to many western guys, we never know.

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I'm available.  You will have to contact me by my pornstar name though:

 Richard Long

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How about Burger King, or hostels, or parking lots, or back alleys.

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What comes fast goes fast. Take your time Viki.

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i saw many foreigners at mc donalds at peoples square

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join a gym

 

I just dont get why you need a boy friend so fast all the time

 

if you look it wont happen,I think I told you that before

dom87:

actually I am in a gym, but I only saw 2 foreigners which are quite old. so probably wouldn't bet on that except you go to a gym in an expat zone or so

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I go to a Chinese gym

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@ Vicki, where in my answer did I even mention players. Looks like you are deflecting again because you probably realise what we have all told you is right but you do not want to face up to that. If you are going to reply to me at least answer to what I said, not what you think I said.

Blondie_:

viki won't answer a direct question.

 

she is addicted to drama - especially making drama out of the trivia of her life.

Look at the way she can not even go a week without posting something that is not about herself and the way that she can not give a coherent or sensible comment about a topic that she does not start - she failed my challenge.

I truly believe she can not maintain a personal relationship because if she could, she would not post so much self-absorbed BS as she does.

Practically every non-Chinese person i know has a close network of family and friends with whom they share personal problems. Not Viki, if half the nonsense she posts is to be believed.

But whether what she posts is true or not is another story - hence my belief she is addicted to drama.

 

In the last month there has been at least 3 tragedies, including the latest land-slide in China, and not even one comment or expression of sympathy from a Chinese poster. This shows the mindset of the majority of Chinese people i interact with on a daily basis.

 

anyway, she has posted this kind of 'question' many times over the last few years, with no sign of personal development or growth, apart from the language in her comments dropping almost to gutter level (again probably for the purposes of getting attention)

 

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questions?      what size condoms do you have at your bedside table?    have you ever had a chinese boyfriend?  does the foreigner have to be  caucasion, english speaking guy?  

I still believe there is a really good guy waiting for you, just downstairs.  the local guy, that makes a decent living driving the TAXI  ... no doubt in my mind    local guy is your best option to reproduce another in your image.

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What ?, You are looking for a boyfriend because you are bored?
If you need it so fast then consider visiting an adult store nearby, You can have a plastic made boyfriend on immediate basic.

Blondie_:

Viki should hook-up with the new poster Darwish

he seems as desperate as she is - a match made in heaven

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Yes, they would be a good match. :)  

 

http://answers.echinacities.com/question/there-woman-here-relationship?type=alatest#answer000

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