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Q: Which company should I go for? Hello Victoria needs your help?:(
I am interested in 2 companies who gave me offers
1.A Chinese trading company sells medical bandage to worldwild,they give 10% commision ,I may get chances to overseas exhibitions(The manager asked if I have passport during my interview and he told they have a lot of overseas exhibition) I may hunt a nice guy in overseas if I can't meet any one I like in Shanghai.Lol.But I am still not sure if they will take me to overseas,firguring I am not the only sales there.
And the products is good,I may make good money there.But still I am not sure if I can make money there.But their base salary is only 3000rmb(Very low).Just a money for maintaining my renting,eating,transportation fees to go to work,and buy a few of other stuff,no savings if I go for it
2.A chinese elevator company sells elevator to overseas.They are new in doing international business,they valued me a lot,and asked me to join them soon. They offer me 4000rmb as a base+rougly 1%commsions to start.I will be the main person who will be in charge of the store on alibaba.com(international business shopping website) ,many other new sales may have to consult me and I will have the chance to get promoted to their international sales manager in the near future.But no international exhibition,I can only talk business with expats on line,very hard for hunting a guy then.
Pls help me to think which company should I go for?Thank you:)I have to give them my answer on tomorrow.
PS:The guys/gals who have insulted me in my old postes pls don't answer my new postes,you guys are rude people who are not welcomed by me any more.
Hi Victoria, i am reluctant to give any advice because i know that you will either insult me or ignore what i say, even when I know it is reasonable. I wish you well in your future.
Victoria1987:
I think you told me some words very very bad,and dirty.I am not sure if it is you.But if it is you,I won't like you.
sorrel:
Hi Victoria, I think if you take a look at any of the replies I sent to you, most of them were urging you to THINK about the answer given to you, and THINK about your replies before you posted.
Samsara:
"I think you told me some words very very bad,and dirty.I am not sure if it is you.But if it is you,I won't like you."
Victoria, that would describe pretty much everyone except sorrel. She is invariably reasoned and well-mannered. Same result though.
Also, I was wondering - Does you calling women "pussy girl" qualify as bad or dirty?
sorrel:
I was not called 'pussy girl', thankfully. But that doesn't excuse calling any other female poster this name. Victoria, I know I said I wasn't going to give you any advice, but there are two things you should do if you are communicating with foreigners: LISTEN carefully to what they say and most of all THINK about your reply before you do. YOU are responsible for the reactions you get on this board, no-one else is. if you reply with courtesy, people will be polite and helpful. if you are rude, people won't give you good advice.
TedDBayer:
My experience is that Chinese girls won't listen unless I have my wallet out. I get the same reaction from my dog with a ball.
Hi!
I may have a few suggestions, but you will probably just get angry and start throwing insults around, so I will keep them to myself.
Good luck, you are going to need it....
Jnusb416:
Honestly either option doesn't sound so great. Don't feel guilty for withholding advice.
Why don't you just make your own reality show like the Kardashians did? I'm sure people will love you or love to hate you. Either way you still get to be in the spotlight and get all the attention you wish to seek.
TedDBayer:
I still think Daffy Duck would make a better avatar. then again no one understands Donald either. 
Traveler:
What do the Kardashians, the royal baby and Victoria have in common? The same capacity to think logically...
I think you make more on 1% of elevator than you make on 10% of bondage. Bondage is not very expensive and only temporary. If no one buys bondage from you, the salary for elevator is more.
You do not need to hunt for foreigner, take crimo, he will please you in the ways of the west. Maybe he will be a big surprise.
GuilinRaf:
Bondage is not temporary if she cannot get out of it.....
Victoria1987:
My overseas exhibition
My expat prince
I like it a lot.But too risky for going the first one.I am making joke with the living cost in Shanghai,I am living in the most expensive area in Shanghai,the bund area.
Victoria1987:
Hospital buy bondage,buy a lot of quantities.
Victoria1987:
Ted,which one is better,I really need to make desicion quickly on tomorrow.I want to make a lot of money and hunt my expat boy as soon as possible.
PS:I went to starbuck a lot,no expat guys ever talked to me,won't you think it is still a good way?GuilinRaf:
If you put your expat boy in "budnage" he wont be able to leave....
TedDBayer:
I do not know, hard to make decision, to bondage or not. You must choose. I do not trust Chinese completely.
TedDBayer:
The overseas exhibition prince may not be all you hope for.
Victoria1987:
Bund area is very nice,a lot of music bars there.And you can have a very nice view of LuJia Zhui and the old English architecture beside the bund.Especially when the night comes,light are on.I used to hang out with my two English boys.Kiss in the rain on the bund .
I hope one day I can grab the boy I like and he likes me also to climb on the pearl tower to kiss with him.
One day I saw a brown guy and girl is getting married on the bund,I said to them:Beautiful.They said:Thank you.Bund area is very romantic for me.I like wearing my pretty dress and standing and walking there with my music on.It is like a poet for love ,for life and for happy.
GuilinRaf:
It is amazing how much of a difference ONE little vowel can make in a word.....
Victoria1987:
Ted,what is Vowel?Guilin is not welcomed,you insulted me,I am still remembering you.Ted didn't,that is why I am talking with him.
Victoria1987:
I firgure I may take the second one,I have to make money.Anyway I have the interview havn't done yet,I may go for it if they still willing to take me for an interview,I supposed to do it today.But the time is too rush.I will decide,may be the third one is the best one
The third company is located besides the expats community,a good area to hunt a expat boy if I go working there everyday.
Victoria1987:
The latin American guy I kown told me to go for the first one since overseas opportunity is very helpful for my future.Big headace now,I don't kown.I want both of the two jobs.
TedDBayer:
Take the one that has bondage job and have a chance to do foreign exhibitions.
TedDBayer:
I can not pick you you. You know Chinese companies better than me. I am often told that I do not know China.
TedDBayer:
Maybe bondage company is better for you, but you must decide, not me.
GuilinRaf:
If she takes the elevator job, she will experience both highs and lows....
TedDBayer:
l think if she takes the elevator job, she will go down. I met my girl friend because I wanted to play with her dog, then noticed that she was cute. Try being cute.
GuilinRaf:
Vicky, please compare the word "bandage" and the word "bondage". You may find that they are not quite the same....
No why?
xinyuren:
why don't you ask your "wise" friends who are too smart to come to this forum with us stupid expats?
Samsara:
Victoria, I just reported you for being boring and physically unattractive.
xinyuren:
Sam, now that's a serious report. That photo that was passed around cleared up my diarrhea. I was clinching for hours after seeing that.
Victoria1987:
Ted always the best .I like Ted
I can buy you drink if you come to the bund.
xinyuren:
@Ted. Thanks. now where are the girls? You said club, right?
TedDBayer:
@xin, you get Sparkey or Vickie. NP. After 10 more ''No whys?" you get both.
Hey Victoria why not ask all your wise friends on QQ, you know the ones who all told you how bad and rude we all are here. Considering you don't want our honest opinion why are you posting more questions. If you really live in the Bund, which I doubt, you would have money so how come you are trawling hostels and fast food places for your future partner. The more you tell us the less it makes any sense and the more it seems like fantasy.
Victoria1987:
hahah.I do live in the bund area.I lost some money for business and expensive shopping and party as well.The only thing I can maintain is my renting and food,does it make sense?
My friends tell me diffrent answers.I am not asking you,I already told :People insulted me are not welcome to my new post.I am trying to get opinions from some other nice people.
Plus I never said I have money.Bund area is not as expensive as you think,I am living in the old building.Maybe yours are more expensive,your expats usually spend 4000rmb for renting.
tomcatflyer:
Hi Victoria, ok no name calling, but I genuinely interested in why you post these questions but then seem to attack anyone who gives an answer you do not like. As I said in one of my previous replies to you When you ask for advice you will get a variety of answers in order to make you think about it, but you seem to ignore a lot of the answers. I know some including mine have been somewhat blunt but there was good advice, so why attack everyone when they do not agree with you.
Victoria1987:
Don't aways blame on people.You are rude and mean,who will call others postitute,slut,or Victoria should get room with Daniel,Victoria is free for sex.Victoria is dick freeVictoria is sleeping around.You mean people,you are just among of them.I will just walk past and even don't want to talk with a guy like you in the street.You have a very ugly heart.
diehard:
Victoria, you spend money on partying? Where do you go generally? You do know that a lot of clubs in shanghai offer free table for pretty girls,right?
Victoria1987:
Usually I don't go club,I go partying in music bars,but everytime I will get charged,nothing is free.
It is so hard to get free things,forget about it.JJust pay some money to have fun,that is the world.
GuilinRaf:
In my experience,from what I have seen, the pretty girls usually enter for free...
Victoria1987:
For sure,many guys paid the bill for me,then latter I just paid the money back to the guys.That is the diffrence between me and the so called "free entering pretty girl".Usually the lady free entering bars are not good,no taste which just can make people feel bored.
So why when I have still have money sometime,why not go for some really fun bars to spend some money to have fun?
Your talking is so funny。You don't kown you have to invest to get more profits in the business?lol
Almost nothing is free,and usually cheap price things are not good if you kown the rule.
GuilinRaf:
Notice?
Vicky STILL has not said why she does not ask her "wise qq friends" for advice.
Methinks they be but a product of her fevered delusions.....
I bet dollars to donuts she has NO IDEA what that means!!!!!!
tomcatflyer:
I am glad you picked up on that, GuilinRaf. I have asked Vicki this twice and she seems to find it easier to say she will not respond to people who have insulted her. All I did was to call a duck a duck, whereas she has managed to insult just about everybody here but still keeps on posting. I think those wise QQ friends disappeared when she woke up in the morning. Come on Vicki we are all waiting to know why you ignore everyone's advice but keep on asking the same questions.
Victoria. As a student of psychology, I think I could win major awards studying you. Please PM me to set up an interview.
Go away.You rude mean guy.
stepping foot on a chinese-made elevator is like drinking water supplied by your envious college roommate. guaranteed to have u tripping on the dirt-nap sooner rather than later....
Victoria - don't take either job. They both sound terrible. Keep up your appearances at the Hostel and Burger King - best option for now ok?
Ted? Cut it out. You're confusing her.
(Jeezuz I can't believe I added to 8 answers and 52 comments, which must be a record!)
None of those. You should move to Tibet and become a female monk. Study Kung Fu for 30 years and then be thrust into the spotlight.
Scandinavian:
Solid plan, except for one thing. Chinese people cannot survive in the thin air in Tibet. EVERYONE knows that. !
If ever I needed cheering up after a really shit time, as I have today, you have done a very good job. Especially Ted.
CARLGODWIN1983:
Maybe you lost the other one from biting it too much, or because of nerves, or because you had an accident? Maybe the bundage went wrong?
Anyway, sewn back on nicely.
CARLGODWIN1983:
Well, thank you.
I have had a really shit two weeks which culminated today in some things that have made me unhappy.
You cheered me up for a little while.
Victoria, you have managed to insult almost EVERYONE on this forum. I hope someone will help you understand that you have been given a lot of good and PRACTICAL advice. most of us are foreigners, and have the knowledge you are looking for, but YOU chose to ignore it. We can't do anything more for you if you don't LISTEN to it.
Dammm I knew my Sex in China on a 30 day visa post was missing something should have worked bondage into the title
Traveler:
You need to add the hyperlink when you promote it, so people can just click and go straight to it. You will get a lot more hits that way.
Go for the International Exhibitions Job, You will make your English better.
Victoria1987:
It is not about English,about making money and hunt a expat boyfriend.
cheflatous:
Making money and hunt a good BF , is also matter of luck , and correct timing. With better English you have the possibility to find another better job with more money , and for sure a better BF. Education is everything
she's a troll. Cant get why so many of you still waste time to reply to all her BS
@ traveler I cant even get this widows 8 peace of crap to post a comment or spell check to work what chance do you think I have a posting a Hypo whatsee 
so the best I can do is Shameless advertising like Show your charity and view Sex in China on a 30 day visa
GuilinRaf:
Everyone should go here:
http://answers.echinacities.com/question/sex-china-30-day-visa?type=alatest#lastcomment
Vicky you really need to find somebody you can trust to talk about your life and problems I would suggest a doctor if you were in a western country . I am not being mean when I say this I really am concered as a parent of Children that are about your age. please think about what I said best regards
Victoria1987:
You think too much,I can make my own idear,life needs a little bit adventure.Or you will never kown, I want my first company,but I mailed them a lot of questions about their business,my chance and give a 3500 as a base to make a living for me to take a adventure in Shanghai.
I may hunt my expat boy while I am making commisons in overseas exhibition
If the first can't give me 3500 as the base,I will then go for the second one(4000 as the base,but the guy told they only give sunday off,I want 2 days off,he is negotiation with his boss)
I will get my answers today to decide which one I will go on next Monday.
I dont need doctor,I am just fun girl,you will think so if you kown me very well.
If I don't go to work for both of the company,I will call my third company.
I am a little vampire lovely rabbit girl.Olalalala
Life is so beautiful.Expat boy is so handsomeVictoria is coming,expat boy,I will buy you icecream if you like me and you will be my yummy icecream
Sorry,I am making jokes.
nicholasba:
You're incredibly delusional, if you could understand what people here told you directly or indirectly you would start to do the right thing and hang out with boys ur age, 13 to 16...
TedDBayer:
Elmer Fudd: It's Wabbit season, and I'm hunting wabbits, so be vewy, vewy quiet!
Bugs Bunny: [Elmer has just run on the air after being chased by Bugs, riding a cannonball-like cork] Hey Doc, you have a slight problem.
Elmer Fudd: I do? What?
Bugs Bunny: [pointing to the ground] Gravity.
Elmer Fudd: [walking back to ward the ground] No uh, that's all right. We haven't studied gwavity yet.
Victoria, if as you say your only interests are making money and a foreign boy-friend, both are very shallow interests. The only foreign men you will attract are the WORST kind. A good man wants a woman with depth of character, not only interested in money or superficial looks. Do you think you are this kind of woman? The many answers you have posted over the last year have shown people on this board what kind of person you really are.
What's so wrong about her wanting a western boyfriend.Maybe she goes about it the wrong way but she has a dream,purpose.Good luck in what you choose as your next job.And yes i know all of Vicks previous post's.She knows what she wants and just going for it.GOOD LUCK
Victoria, you are a very naive girl. You only listen to what you want to hear, not what is probably best for you. Remember, YOU are responsible for what happens to you. we all know you will be back on this site when things go wrong though the choices you make, despite the best efforts of people here trying to help you. GOOD LUCK - you'll really need it.
I dont know if Voctoria needs hellp or not, but Phil does! And you can help him by checking out his post here!
Sex in China on a 30 day Visa?
Not only will Phil not insult you, he will be truly grateful!
happywanderer:
Checked. And a good post, but what it needs is gritty drama.
Victoria, all of your posts get the most views. How do you do it? I also want to know more about the comment above "I am a little vampire".
Victoria1987:
I have the quality for making a party.What you want to kown?
happywanderer:
I always want to kown more .
I actually am interested in what you mean by vampirism though. Dressing up or more?
Victoria1987:
Today I am in costa coffee,still no expat guys come to me,here has manyI hang out a lot in starbuck and cost coffee,just no one comes to me.You guys told go to coffee shop,but why not working?
happywanderer:
Erm I see a couple of problems with that. I don't think anyone ever seriously suggested picking up guys in starbucks or costa coffee - so much as it being a place that's a bit more upmarket than a hostel (at least some chance of meeting people that aren't just transients). And if you're sitting there minding your own business don't expect divine intervention to magically place a glory-hunk next to your table who just happens to need to borrow some sugar.
EDIT: I heard crimo's all out of sugar.
I think we could get you a scholarship at "Romper Room"
Victoria1987:
But I did get real schorshipin the past,the one girl did.Because I am queen Victoria who always don't show up in the class,god loves to put me in.
GuilinRaf:
Do you know what "romper room" is??
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romper_room You really need to learn to do online research.....Victoria1987:
i didn't believe your comment is nice before i repried because ur alway very mean.
He's not going to be an expat prince if you are in his country is he? Dumbass.
GuilinRaf:
I am thinking she will be more what she is now, "court jester" 
