Chinese men have the strongest family values, willing to sacrifice to his beloved family. I don't think any other race guys can compete this with them. They are the best husband in the whole world.

All stupid foreigners here notices those "wives" thing are the stupidest stereotypel i heard for years. Let's do a math, China got 4% rich people, 3% of them have "wives"...Do you think they can represent the whole Chinese men? .....and how about your own countries men? who HAD DONE countless one night stands....the number will give you a shock believe it or not......take good care of your back when you only see others back....

i dont have time to write really long post, not only because i bet not many guys like to read long post, but also because all talks about China had been talked talked about for many times....find it somewhere else

Considering it was only 55 years ago that men in china were no longer allowed to have more than one wife, I'd say it's a pretty sad suggestion that they are good husbands.

Are they the best? Well, I can't say any particular ethnicity or nationality is the best, it depends on the person. A Chinese man isn't my top choice, but if I met the one for me, then he would be the best for me, and that's all that matters. As for cheating, I think that people don't notice if they don't want to notice. If a man cheated on me, I wouldn't be mad that he slept with another woman. I'd be mad that he hid it from me. Yes, China is famous for having multiple wives, as it was only outlawed in recent history. Honestly, I don't see what's so bad about it, as long as everybody is okay with it. Marriage is an agreement of commitment between people, and a promise to keep their best interests in mind. There are people all over the world who break that promise every day, so whatever. Now I probably sound crazy. Good day.

considering some specific people perfect without having any complete knowledge or so authentic evidence or figures, i guess no country has best the husbands

ye ye ye, sound like only chinese men have several wives in the world.

I don't know if I disagree with your post, so that means I'm not an idiot.You don't say best husband at what,, obviously if you keep several wives, then you can not satify one.,, so maybe best a-hole husband, but not best husband to a wife to make her life happy, which would be THE exceptable definition of a best husband,,,,,,,,, I never tried GF for hire until I came to China. A married China man friend introduced me to this life style. I bought him a couple and I think he just pocketed the money, thats OK,,,, but he was always waiting for me and always wondering what i could be doing for 2 hours or more. He wanted to watch,eww,,I decided that I didn't like the rented GF as I had no real desire for them. I would rather have a wife/ GF that I do have desire for and then make her eyes go happy.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,, since my friend is my only insight into the China man with women, I'd say he lacks some skills in the husband department

i agree chinese men are the best husbands in the world, many make sure their wives and children live far away in different parts of the country so they can have their fun, chinese men must work harder in bed to please their wives because when you are 1/3 the size you must work 10X harder to get yourself off. chinese dont allow their wives to experience the pleasures of sex because that would turn them into sex hungry sluts. chinese men are the best fathers because they know children are best raised by the wife alone at home. Chinese men are the most devoted husbands because they know they cannot bother their wives too much for sex so they go to massage parlor or ktvs. that is why there are 30 million more men than women in china because chinese men understand that women are of little importance.

It has been a long  time that I don't know the meaning of best husbands.Is there someone who can explain me about best husbands?

The thing I like about Chinese husbands is that they cause their wives to seek out foreign men.

the question is hard to answer, no matter what the country is

Call me whatever but I beg to disagree with this cause my husband is THE BEST HUSBAND in the world!  

never heard o such allegation

never heard of such allegation

This is something that I have heard Chinese husbands say all the time and as much as I love China, and as much as I love all things Chinese, it is the ONE thing with which I have to 1,000% disagree -- if nothing else from my own experience and from what I see around me.

Now, what follows is all opinion, just mine:

1. Many Chinese husbands treat their wives just like cleaning ladies and like hired cooks.   They clean for the husbands, they cook for the husbands, they go shopping for the husbands and the husbands do precious little.

2. Many Chinese husbands drink beyond belief.  I can't tell you how often I have seen this kind of behavior and how really bad it is.  If I know 2 husbands that don't drink, well than I know 10 husbands that do drink, and half of those get really drunk quite often.

3.  Many Chinese husbands smoke at home and smoke heavily with a total disregard for their wives and their children.  Secondary smoke is dangerous, very dangerous, and this is medical science, not an old wife's tale.

4. A good number of  Chinese husbands scream, rant and rave at their wives frequently and to a degree that would provoke an immediate divorce in a Western country.

5. I am sorry to say this but I have heard this repeatedly from the wives and that Chinese men need to pay more attention to the sexual needs of their wives, and to understand how a women's body works in these matters.  Instead, I hear things like "one, two, three, I'm finished and now I am going to sleep".

7.  But what is the worst thing that I have seen is this:  a Western man marries a Chinese lady and then proceeds to behave exactly as if he were a Chinese husband.  Terrible, just terrible.

Anyway, that's my take on this.

Of course, they give their wives space, money without love. Who needs love when you have a credit card, house, car and lots of shopping time, just drop the kids off at the grandparents whilest mommy is out doing her thing and daddy is shacked up with his mistress. It's a win win. I've heard this same thing from my wife, it's a lie they know it, but love to use it. Foreigners beware, they love to say what Chinese men do but never really do and still want you to provide them with that good old western lifestyle. So the idiot would only be the one who believes the b**tches who say this very thing

Who said that? We are suffering in this freak country. How could we be happy? Everyone has to work harder and harder to make a living. Sitting up, overtime is a casual thing. No one can be happy. The damned price of gas is increasing terribly and we don't have a god~

Chyan, what god, there are many gods in essence in beliefs. If you are missing that then find a religion. Who is suffering, the world is suffering, do you think it's different in any other country. The point of Khur, is something I here daily from Chinese girls, specifically the ones with Foreign boyfriends and spouses that have a pay range of 9,000rmb to thousands of rmb per month. It's a ploy for Chinese women to get more from their spouses or boyfriends

Well, Techezee, I don't think you really got what I was talking about. About this topic, firstly, I don't agree with this title of Chinese husband. It's supposed to be an individual case. We shouldn't map it into a national problem. Here I pointed out Chinese are suffering which doesn't mean people from other continent is better or worse than us. Ok? Everyone is living under huge pressure. I don't think the measurement of good or bad husband could be ended up with what they can offer, not a fabulous house, Benz or Dior. That depends their wives. What you think good is good. 

Secondly, about religion, I mean it in society level. If you know China well, it's easy to say what people believe. In some sense you can say people actually believe in 'relationship'. If you say so, I'd agree. But this has nothing to do with the meaning of happiness of marriage. If it's so, I can't imagine how the marriage life could be. Seriously, most of Chinese has non belief. We have to admit it. Why I mentioned religion? Because sometimes belief can release people from those pressure in positive way. 

When you talked about the girl's ploy, at that moment if a guy can see through this trick at the beginning and still accept the girl, I have to say there are two way to explain it. 1.He loves her, so he would love to do everything for her. 2.He loves her too much to lose himself. Stupid. Not all the Chinese girls, no, actually my Chinese girl friends, when we talk about a guy, for the first impression we talk about his property, education background and his look. It's just a talk as everybody does. When she met the problem of getting marry with someone, I don't think the property, appearance thing will become the key to this point, but feeling is. 

you must be talking about  the 50 percent in the cities that don't cheat on their wives

Well, as a young and new generation of Chinese man (I from Chinese mainland), I believe that I have to say something. I am in USA for studying a graduate degree and my current girlfriend is an American girl.

I want to talk more about young generation about Chinese people. When I mentioned young generation, it means the Chinese people who were born after 1980s.

Firstly, I saw lots of comments regarding religion. Yes, I have to say yes, in China Mainland, in the older generation, very very few people believe in God. The reason for this is because of the Communism. You know, around 30 years ago, you can get killed because your religion. BUT now, China has more freedom and young people all received good education. Lots of us read Bible and began to go to Church. SO, for young generation, at least, they dont believe in Communism and they like to know God.

Secondly, lots of comments say something about negative aspects about Chinese husband. I admit in some degree, they are true. Because China has a long history and there are really some very bad traditions in ancient China. For example, In ancient China, the man can get wives as much as they want if the man has lots of money. Another example, the wife cannot ask for divorce because   if the divorce really happened, she would never marry again. So in one word, in ancient China, the women's social status is very low. 

But in modern China, the things are totally different. The young Chinese guys they really really respect their girlfriends or their wives. We know what is love, how to love. 

Finally, I want to say, you cannot say the best husbands are usually from which certain country. It really depends on people whom you met, is that right? For some very conservative Chinese home, it is true that some families they dont want to find the husband or wife who is not Chinese, but this is the same in USA isn't it?? 

A man with 39 wives...do it the Indian way!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1358654/The-worlds-biggest-famil...

I agree with the Emperor. Right on.

Well.... they have little penises and since women in China don't like sex, I guess that makes them easy to deal with when the wife has to do her duty in bed. Being half the size of an American, it would make sex easier....       Of course, that "could" be the reason they want foreign husbands too. Size DOES matter.

I dont think so

I dont think so