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Q: why are so many people here infatuated with their units?
It one thing to be insecure, but all this discussion of units is ridiculous. Size shape whatever does not matter. Its the quality f the people your dating that should come first. By the time you expose yourself to a woman, she's already decided she likes you enough to want to see your unit and share hers with you.
Why are there no talk of women here, other than 'whats with these breasts?' Breasts are more interesting. How big is too big? Have you dated a flat chested girl or a DD backbreaker? These are not relevant questions, but far more interesting then guys looking for an internet cock fight on whose hung better or not.
Really if your sharing a unit with a lady, what's the issue?
Honey, I don't count my units, I count my half-meters.
I think the real insecurity is displayed by the people who flip out cus someone asked a question about sex. There are cultural and structural reasons why Chinese girls mite be afraid of a large wang. Whats wrong with asking about it on a site thats purpose is to answer potential expats questions about China?
Harpo:
Cultural = girls being told by parents and friends that if they date a foriegner who has a big wang, no chinese man will want her afterwards because she would be all stretched out. Girls being told sex with Chinese men is less painful. Stuff like that.
thedude:
You people are too sensitive. Harpo hit the nail on the head (pun intended)
It's not the size of the ship you're sailing, but the motion of the ocean.
Wait a darn minute! If the woman has a unit, I'm not sharing anything!
Anyway, isn't infatuation the opposite of insecurity?
Flat chested women in my honest opinion tend to be more horny, this inturn gives me the rand even more...
I'm not infatuated with it, it's massive, I live with it, move on.
you are saying there are no discussions about the boob size among the women? funny
some measure there pocket size some measure other things. If you found your love nothing if that crap matters.
whatever you do you have to be compatible.
ammohler:
i know women talk about their breasts, the also talk about the men they've been with. My point is that they do not discuss it here on this page like all the guys with penis envy, comparison issues and boasting and bragging rites.
A man's unit and the size really has nothing to do with sex. Foreplaty can satisfy a woman regardless of your unit. And for the guy that asks whether or not a woman has a unit or not makes me wonder. Of course the have a unit, its called a vagina! Hopefully you know that where your unit plugs into hers for recharging each other.
I only asked this question because it seems that only the men on this site have continue to ask the question. So I am curious why the women ignore answering the question. Perhaps because its ridiculous. Why don't we discuss vaginas. Far more fascinating. Depending on the woman, this could be a deep subject or as shallow as the your penis size allows youto be.
Either way, good luck for those of you who insist your 'hung.' A true gentlemen would never discuss such a thing in a public forum. Its a bedroom thing!
The only way to answer these questions is to ask the women you're dating. I'm sure they would tell you the answer. I'd love to hear their answers. And i'm sure of few of them would break your hearts in the process and tell you you're not as hung as you claim. They'd probably offer your tips on how to please them better as well! Just an opinion, not trying to step on anyone's ego.
Harpo is right. There is certainly a cultural stigma attached to women in China that have been with foreigners. Chinese men don't like to be compared to others.
Also...my last gf used to regularly complain she wished I was smaller like a Chinese man so it wouldn't hurt....a bit of an insult...but it is what it is.
I think it is a reasonable question at least in moderation.
Because it's my sanctuary from the outside world. 3 bedrooms, 1 bath, oh wait...
Here is where many of you are missing the point. The posts in question were bragging about their big ones. Also all Chinese women aren't the same.
And why brag about your unit but be too afraid to use it? How can you ask a question like that, go and experience it yourself.
Harpo: You are missing the point , culturally women are taught to have sex only when in love. And when they are in love with you they will do anything for you. It does not matter what size you are, they will suffer the pain for love and the eventual pleasure.
But if you had any experience with women here in China, then you wouldn't have to ask such silly questions in a sixth grade manner.
Harpo:
I disagree with you. The argument can be made that culturally Chinese women are taught to consider face, status, money, family, and other things before love. Maybe if the question was about western women it would be a little more silly. As to your other point, a lot of people who ask questions on this site are not in China. They try to get information on here before deciding to live in China. But your right about one thing, if they were living here, they probably wouldn't need to ask the question.
