The place to ask China-related questions!
Beijing Shanghai Guangzhou Shenzhen Chengdu Xi'an Hangzhou Qingdao Dalian Suzhou Nanjing More Cities>>

Categories

Close
Welcome to eChinacities Answers! Please or register if you wish to join conversations or ask questions relating to life in China. For help, click here.
X

Verify email

Your verification code has been sent to:

Didn`t receive your code? Resend code

By continuing you agree to eChinacities's Privacy Policy .

Sign up with Google Sign up with Facebook
Sign up with Email Already have an account? .
Posts: 352

Shifu

2
2
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

Q: why chatting in Chinese is so poisonous ?

why chatting in Chinese is so irrtating ? 

frequently people send me "?" or "." or  smilie as a response , I also didn't expect that even top management people use this silly chatting style to respond to your professional messages on your wechat. It's like they are testing how far they can push your buttons or express their carelessness. and you know failing to response to this stupidity can ruin your relationship or work .

6 years 39 weeks ago in  Culture - China

 
Highest Voted
Posts: 2862

Emperor

6
6
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

Report Abuse
6 years 39 weeks ago
 
Answers (9)
Comments (7)
Posts: 2862

Emperor

6
6
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

Report Abuse
6 years 39 weeks ago
 
Posts: 2421

Shifu

4
4
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

A fair question. Possible reasons include,

 

1. Brought up by sleazy parents to behave like sleazy politicians, not revealing their true thoughts. This is what happens where truths are useless, because the society runs on guanxi, not laws (which in many cases are there, but only gets implemented when CCP says so). 

 

2  Face. Ignorance regardig the subject of conversation, fear of looking stupid / losing, ie no face / war mentality, therefore shut up.

 

3. Passive aggressiveness. Still want something from you although wants you dead inside. To minimize the chance of angering you or you discovering their inner boiling rage, utter an evasive, meaningless response. 

 

Remember, this people survives on guanxi, finding the correct door, begging (manipulating your conscience), coercing, extortion.....they don't have ethics.  Yes/No often leads to commitment, responsibility, traceability. No response = no responsibility = sitting on the fence = safe.  Most of them mastered this before going to high school. 

LastTargarean:

2 shoule be edited to:skewed mainland-mind version of face

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse

earthizen:

lol......or twisted psyche

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse
Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 4530

Emperor

1
0
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
1

 computer chat uses emoticons. future will be no words. just emoticons.angry

I like the naughty ones to send to members of the female persuasion. devil

trunch:

You must be really great with the ladies to spend so much time on this message board. Seems like those "naughty" emojis are working out quite well for you.

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse

diverdude1:

yep,,, my current gf is da bomb!  I M Hand,,, kinda funny name, but wow in the sack!

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse
Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 25

Governor

2
0
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
2

"frequently people send me "?" or "." or smilie as a response..." Did you ever stop to think that maybe a Chinese person would send you "?" because your Chinese isn't that good? Hmmmmm... that's a tough one really.

earthizen:

This is a common tactic the locals use among themselves --- to duck questions. In this case it isn't about language proficiency.

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse

Silverstein:

because "you are sinking so much"

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse
Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 259

Governor

0
0
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

They always ask me 20 stupid questions about an arrangement we have already made.
Eventually I just stop responding, or send a short response in English such as "We continue August 5th".
At which point they respond with a crying face because they're too lazy/stupid to find a translator.
This is daily.

Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 5328

Emperor

1
1
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

I never saw anything wrong with emoticons. Sometimes a picture says a thousand words and that's really useful if you're like me and hate typing on a phone.

Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 1198

Shifu

0
0
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

professional messages on wechat

?

.

indecision

 

Most people who use wechat for their professional business belong properbly to generation internet and that means, their writing style is far from the professional interpretation of some mid 50 manager who can just open the internet explorer but just found out wechat is the next great thing.

 

jokes aside...

nothing to do with we chat, but did you see their "professional emails"? Normally you would think a 5 year old has a better understanding of writing something professional

Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 312

Governor

3
3
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

The air is poisonous, the water is poisonous, the soil is poisonous, why should conversations break the trend?
Also, bear in mind the writing system (which is not an alphabet) is approximately 20% crude drawings of the object.

earthizen:

'The air is poisonous, the water is poisonous, the soil is poisonous, why should conversations break the trend?'

 

Nailed it. This is not a chicken and egg thing. Poisonous thoughts are bound to generate poisonous actions. All their efforts of superficial investment on environmental cleanup gadgets will fail in the end because these psychos make no effort cleaning up their toxic psyche, or mentalities.

 

6 years 38 weeks ago
Report Abuse
Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Posts: 1082

Shifu

0
0
You must be a registered user to vote!
You must be a registered user to vote!
0

the emoji in a professional or work communication......

when i challenge this or ask for clarification I get the 'hurt feelings' response.

 

I'd love to see how a job application would be received if there were emojis in the cover letter.

Report Abuse
6 years 38 weeks ago
 
Know the answer ?
Please or register to post answer.

Report Abuse

Security Code: * Enter the text diplayed in the box below
Image CAPTCHA
Enter the characters shown in the image.
  • Allowed HTML tags: <a> <em> <strong> <cite> <code> <ul> <ol> <li> <dl> <dt> <dd> <img> <br> <p> <u>
  • Web page addresses and e-mail addresses turn into links automatically.
  • Lines and paragraphs break automatically.
  • Textual smileys will be replaced with graphical ones.

More information about formatting options

Forward Question

Answer of the DayMORE >>
A: In my personal experience, teaching certificates have varied in releva
A:In my personal experience, teaching certificates have varied in relevance depending on the context and location. Here's a breakdown of each aspect:a) Getting the teaching job: Teaching certificates can certainly enhance your chances of securing a teaching position, especially in formal educational settings such as schools and language institutions. Many employers prefer candidates who have undergone specific training in pedagogy and instructional techniques, which these certificates often provide. However, other factors such as experience, references, and the demand for teachers in a particular area also play significant roles in the hiring process.b) Getting a higher salary than your uncertified competitors: In some cases, holding a teaching certificate can indeed lead to a higher salary compared to uncertified competitors. Many educational institutions have structured salary scales that take into account factors such as level of education, years of experience, and additional certifications. Holding a teaching certificate may place you in a higher salary bracket or make you eligible for certain salary incentives or bonuses. However, this can vary widely depending on the specific policies of the institution or organization.c) Getting promotions: Teaching certificates can be beneficial for career advancement and securing promotions within the field of education. They demonstrate a commitment to professional development and mastery of teaching skills, which are qualities that many employers value when considering candidates for leadership positions or administrative roles. Additionally, some promotions may require specific certifications or qualifications, making holding a teaching certificate essential for advancement in certain cases.Regarding which certificate yields better results, it largely depends on the specific requirements of the job market and the educational context in which you intend to work. For example:A Postgraduate Certificate in Education (PGCE) is often highly regarded in formal school settings and can be advantageous for those seeking positions in primary or secondary education.Montessori certification is valuable for individuals interested in working in Montessori schools or implementing Montessori principles in their teaching approach.A Teaching English as a Foreign Language (TEFL) certificate is particularly relevant for those seeking to teach English to non-native speakers in international contexts or language schools.Ultimately, the best certificate for you will depend on your career goals, the specific requirements of the positions you're interested in, and the preferences of potential employers in your target job market. It's essential to research the requirements and preferences of employers in your desired field and tailor your qualifications accordingly. -- ruqaiya761