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Q: Which company should I go for? Hello Victoria needs your help?:(
I am interested in 2 companies who gave me offers
1.A Chinese trading company sells medical bandage to worldwild,they give 10% commision ,I may get chances to overseas exhibitions(The manager asked if I have passport during my interview and he told they have a lot of overseas exhibition) I may hunt a nice guy in overseas if I can't meet any one I like in Shanghai.Lol.But I am still not sure if they will take me to overseas,firguring I am not the only sales there.
And the products is good,I may make good money there.But still I am not sure if I can make money there.But their base salary is only 3000rmb(Very low).Just a money for maintaining my renting,eating,transportation fees to go to work,and buy a few of other stuff,no savings if I go for it
2.A chinese elevator company sells elevator to overseas.They are new in doing international business,they valued me a lot,and asked me to join them soon. They offer me 4000rmb as a base+rougly 1%commsions to start.I will be the main person who will be in charge of the store on alibaba.com(international business shopping website) ,many other new sales may have to consult me and I will have the chance to get promoted to their international sales manager in the near future.But no international exhibition,I can only talk business with expats on line,very hard for hunting a guy then.
Pls help me to think which company should I go for?Thank you:)I have to give them my answer on tomorrow.
PS:The guys/gals who have insulted me in my old postes pls don't answer my new postes,you guys are rude people who are not welcomed by me any more.
Victoria do you have a vault?
happywanderer:
Incidentally I love the elevator idea too! I could scream like a madman as it goes down and then brush back my hair while stepping out, oblivious to the stares of bystanders that aren't entirely sure what just happened.
victoria, meeting new people for better jobs and opportunity, be it business or romance is much better than sitting in an office on the phone all day for elevators,
the first one will give you more exposure to people and other options for your life.
we call it networking in the west.
Victoria1987:
I already told the second one I will go working for them,they valued me a lot.Before I told my second company I would work for them,I mailed to my first company to ask them just give me 3500rmb to guarante my living costes in Shanghai,I will work for them,they said they can't offer 3500 rmb as the base.For making a living,I have to go for the 4000rmb as the base salary to start.My renting fee is 1500rmb.You kown 3000rmb is too stressful
Life is not perfect.
I want romance while I am making money for living a goolife also.But find it is so hard.
happywanderer:
If you're living on 3500 in shanghai you're doing pretty well. I know from friends that live there it's pricier than beijing.
Victoria1987:
Your friend lives a more expensive life,some expats get paid by USD and party in Shanghai,usually 3500rmb is enough for chinese to live in Shanghai,and the renting fees in the surburb could be much cheaper,many of them pay renting fees less than 1000rmb,cooking meals by themselves,and do a little shopping sometimes,for sure it is enough.If your friend pay 4000rmb renting,do not cooking,party every day etc.I would say maybe 10K is not enough for him/her.It depends on what kind of way they are living.
Hi Victoria... I am certain you have already decided 
Victoria1987:
I choosed the second one,but I made the mistake,the second one is a motor company,not elevator.But I don't really feel happy about my desicion,I lost my chance to go overseas,I want hunt expat prince
Victoria, the best things in life require a lot of PATIENCE. You are not going to meet someone immediately. Real life is not like that. They are not going to some running over to you as soon as you arrive in a place. That is why I suggested going to an English Corner in a coffee shop. You get to meet the same people regularly, and get to know them slowly. That is the basis of any good relationship.
Victoria1987:
I am in the coffee shop many expats are working and live close by now.Still guys are even not come to me.I bring my laptop together and did some working for my own on line store.And I wear very sexy and gogerou.Just guys don't approach to me,why?Guys stay in the costa coffee playing mobile,chating with the lady with them or chating with the guys with them
sorrel:
YOU HAVE TO HAVE PATIENCE !!!! What you think is attractive might not be attractive to them. Every man has different taste, you might not be to their taste. THAT IS LIFE !
Victoria1987:
But in hostel,almost every expat boy told I look so hot and attractive.But why here expat boys don't want me?Now I am seriously look like a yummy girl.I am wearing my tight dress(well,I have a good shape men like) hanging out in costa coffee,plus my face is not ugly also,actually looks lovely.
sorrel:
seriously, please read my previous post again. how many times do you want me to say the same thing before you think about what I have said?
Samsara:
You are a patient and generous person, sorrel. But to be honest, I think the longer someone knows Victoria, the lower her chances get.
People (including you, several times) have tried to explain the same concept (as you just described) in various ways. But Victoria will never accept that she needs to change.
Here is the response Victoria is waiting for:
"Wow, really? I can't understand how a young and beautiful girl like you isn't married yet! Men can be so stupid sometimes. If they don't want to marry you, that's their loss. The right one is out there. Just keep trying!"
sorrel:
I know, that is why I am giving up now. there is only so much you can do for some people and I have done as much as I am willing to do here without losing my sanity. Apart from anything else, I don't want to be called 'pussy girl' (ha ha)
sorrel:
i am all quotes today, so I will end on this "There Are None So Blind As Those Who Will Not See"
TedDBayer:
I have an opening for a catwoman, must wear the costume.
http://answers.echinacities.com/question/does-anyone-beijing-have-vault-i-could-use
.Tks,bill.
