My 2 cents, because you constantly brag about your bum instead of developing a nice personality. With such attitude, you get what you deserve.

Because you haven't met me yet

Chin up, I am sure you will eventually meet a good man.

When the same pattern is recurrent, it's not bad luck... It's something being done wrong.

Because reasons.

You can find the answer to that question by taking an honest look at yourself rather than posting egotistical personal questions on this forum.

You treat men as if they were objects, or things to be collected. Some women obsessively collect handbags, but with you it's men, more specifically foreign men. Instead of a Gucci, a LV or a Prada, it's a German, a Brit, an American...

If I can tell this about you just from reading a few of your posts, the men you meet at Burger King would surely pick up on it too.

So, when they sense you are using them as objects, they return the favor by using you for sex.

There's nothing wrong with having a big bottom.  IMO a big bottom is a thing to be valued.. coveted even.

I doubt your bottom is big in the traditional sense.

Give men up.

Who knows why u are not lucky? Men like women who shop around looking to find the best match or they can never be satisfied cant fill thier emptiness loneliness or they like using people like objects who knows? But it takes two to make a pair a couple a relationship and it takes two to tango!

You have shown everyone on here that you view men as a commodity. You have often listed your requirements, the most blatant being they must have white skin. In another current post of yours about your employer and position as a manager you seem to have an over inflated opinion of yourself. The majority of "western" men are attracted to a potential girlfriend/wife because of who she is, not what she can do for them. Skin colour, wealth, position does not matter as much as who she is as a real person. You on the other hand appear to want to pick a boyfriend from a shopping list of what you think is a good choice. No matter how you try to hide this when you meet someone this mentality does show through and most decent people find this very unattractive. So if you treat people like a commodity do not be surprised if that is the way they treat you. Many people here have given you good advice in the past which you ignore, presumably because you think you know better. As I have told you before, and others have said the same thing, you need to take a long hard look in the mirror and work on improving what you see.

Viki's Anthem:

As I walk this land of broken dreams

I have visions of many things

But happiness is just an illusion

Filled with sadness and confusion

What BKomes of the broken hearted

Who has love that's now departed

I know I've got to find

Some kind of piece of mind, baby.

It is quite easy to recognise the source of all of your problems....from your job to your sex life.

Clearly you have an over-inflated and unrealistic opinion of yourself. And clearly these opinions are not shared by others. I know this same advice appears in the replies to each of your questions in one form or another but here goes: do some honest self assessment

Most Western guys can spot the style of girl who comes across as available for easy sex. You are obviously one of these girls. If you don't want to be treated like a slut then don't behave like a slut....this is rocket science to you, right?

OK iwolfe how about stop pretending u honestly really are concerned about my private life ok? According to u im a troll im masqurading as a chinese secret agent on this site so i can report u to the police! Also out of your words u insulted me and used profanity Now, am i to forget all of this?

Wtf with those answers? Go ask around foreigners in Shanghai,you will know this is not only my problem. They don't look for relationship,often heard they say they are here not for long time and only look for fun. Often heard they say girls here are pretty and they don't want to settle with one girl.Is that my problem? Only those few guys on ecc married chinese brag about how foreign men want to marry chinese girls. And say it's all my problem. I happen to know girls dated foreign men but ended to be single eventually.

Only I want white men?

Lol go ask white girls,clearly most white girls in China demands a white man to date. Other women don't have requirement when comes to look for bfs? I don't believe.

I often heard a white guy told he and some other white guys think chinese girls are ugly. Some look for sex,some find chinese girls ugly. and you know competition for dating white men in Shanghai is big right? So many girls speak English here. Surely some guys don't find me compatitable with them too,but it's not the main reason that hard for me to find a date here.

I used to break up with my Belgium ex,then he met a girl the second day then soon the girl goes to Belgium for him

My ex and some other guys told me they got a lot of sex offered in Shanghai. They told many chinese girls just pretent to be traditional.

There are old white men who wants to settle down want to be with me. But who want bf 20 years older than you? I assume not many want. Then those guys complain that I care about age.

Insanity= doing the same thing expecting different results.

Ergo...You are...figure it out.

Viki. First of all, do you want someone who doesn't want you? Secondly, lots of guys lead with sex.  The term boys will be boys comes to my mind. Men are visual and sex is important to them.  The thing is though, not all guys realize they would actually get more sex if they stopped using sex to lead.  We all know our biggest sex organ is our brain and women are turned on via emotions far more than straight sex talk. Me personally, when a guy that I am getting to know leads with sex, and all he talks about is sex for the most part, I don’t take him serious at all.  I am aware he doesn’t exactly get how to connect with a woman and frankly I want a man that does know how to do this without leading with sex. I am bored by the sex talk. I prefer to connect before sex.  I prefer to leave these things to the imagination and let things unfold naturally without pushing it. I will weed him out without a second thought. There is no point in getting bent of of shape or taking it personal when all he talks about is sex or tries to lead with sex.  It happens.  You don’t need to analyze why or ponder why you attract these men.  We all attract these men, we attract all sorts of men.  Attracting a man however does not mean you accept him into your life or your world. A high Value Woman doesn’t worry about these things.  If she doesn’t care to engage with men that lead with sex before they even meet her, she simply doesn’t.  She sure won’t sit around and worry what these men think of her or try to think how she could turn it around. A high value woman is not so needy for a man’s attention that she entertains men that don’t align with her. she realizes that this is an abundant world and there are other men out there more suited to her and she doesn’t need to settle.   A high value woman simply accepts or rejects! 

Did you ask them why?

Vicky, you've been on this forum long enough to understand the difference between an answer and a comment. You keep posting comments as answers to your own question to give yourself more attention and bump your thread to the top. This is selfish, immature behavior. Maybe always prioritizing your little thoughts and feelings over those of others is why it's hard for you to connect with men.

Next time you go on a date... Leave your phone at home.

If you must take a phone, take an old Nokia style brick with only your dates phone number.

There is no need to update your wechat just because some dude buys you a plate of shrimps.

If you want photos, take a camera.

Because you are looking for  a white "tall"guy specifically from USA and north Europe who can cook and clean for you while you are enjoying eating and relaxing